Fathers Finding Strength in Presence: Reflections from Our Fathering Community Session

On 24 September 2025, BapaHebatSG gathered fathers at The Foundry for another instalment of our Fathering Community Networking Session. This month’s theme — “Spending Quality Time With My Kids” — resonated deeply with participants, who came ready to reflect, share, and learn together.

A Space for Fathers to Pause and Reflect

The session reminded us that quality time is not just about the hours we spend with our children, but about the intention and presence we bring into those moments. Fathers reflected on:

• Why a father’s presence is critical in a child’s life.

• The missed opportunities and barriers that often stand in the way.

• How small, consistent habits can make a big difference.

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Shared Stories, Shared Strength

Through guided discussions and open sharing, fathers encouraged one another by highlighting the small wins they are already practicing — bedtime routines, simple conversations, weekend playtimes — and recognising these as meaningful ways to strengthen bonds.

The beauty of the session lay in the collective wisdom in the room: each father learning from another, discovering fresh ideas, and leaving with practical steps they could immediately apply at home.

Positive Feedback and Encouragement

Participants shared that the session gave them both encouragement and clarity:

• Encouragement that even small actions count.

• Clarity that intentional presence can be built into daily routines.

• Motivation to sustain these habits over time.

Moving Forward Together

As one father put it, “I realise now it’s not about waiting for the perfect opportunity — it’s about making the moments I already have with my kids count.”

At BapaHebatSG, we are humbled to witness fathers growing together in awareness and action. The journey continues — one step, one conversation, and one small win at a time.